I guess we need to consider what we want from our server. I think foremost we should enjoy it ourselves.
Problem with S&D is that if its MW2 style 4 rounds to win, that's hella gay. Also, all the other "realism" clans will be doing S&D, a rather saturated market.
Problem with TDM is that some of us just won't enjoy playing there.
I still say we consider giving sabotage a try. xD
Or if we can set it up, a rotation that includes different gametypes. If server files are like WaW then we can do that.