Skylark, I can only offer you my condolences...
You know know how it feels to support the US team:
Shitty defense allows a horrible goal (or two),
Team finally gets their shit together - only to get fucked by the officiating,
Comeback continues, only to fall just short. OK, this isn't terribly applicable to you but I do believe that would have been a much different score had that goal counted. I still think Germany would have won as they looked to be the better team over the course of the tournament to date, but I think it would have been a much more respectable match.
Here we are nearly two days later and i've finally begun to get over my disappointment in the US performance. It actually took my wife (who doesn't know a goal kick from a corner kick) to get me on the path to normalcy. She basically reminded me that I've been bitching for over a month the the US defense is horse-shit so I really shouldn't be that surprised that the defense gave it all away and told me to get my head out of my ass and stop pouting.
I just can't help thinking about what could have been. I mean, the US is no where near good enough to win the tournament but the semifinals were within reach. I don't think the US will ever gain find its stars aligned so perfectly: A very navigable group, that they (fortunately) won and wound up in, by far, the easiest quadrant of the bracket - not a single superpower until the semi-final. However, even if we had pulled another rabbit out of our asses and came back to beat Ghana, surely Uruguay would have absolutely shredded our defense for something like 4 or 5 goals - those guys have looked very very good.
And, I must say, what started out as a World Cup overrun with bitching about the ball has clearly turned into one of bitching about the officiating. I mean, this has gotten patently absurd. It started with the awful red card for Australia in the first match vs. Germany. It should have been a sign of things to come, I guess, when we then got the the phantom goal-line handball (when the ball actually hit him in the face) on Robbie Findley of the US for a yellow and accumulation suspension, and has only gotten worse from there. This is unbelievable.
Lets hope, for the sake of the game, that the final has a badly blown call as well. Maybe that will be what it takes for FIFA to finally embrace one of the many forms of technology that can help the officials and better the game. I don't want anything crazy or overbearing - just something that will, at the very least, prevent the type of call that we saw in the England-Germany match. Personally, I can live with a wrong offsides call (when it's not as blatant at what we saw in Mexico-Argentina - no excuse for that one) as it's a very difficult thing to judge - looking at two places at once is tough for just about anything but a chameleon. But I would like to see some form of replay introduced on the type of play like that Lampard goal or the one that ended up with Kaka getting a second yellow and missing the Portugal match. There's no reason why the fourth (or an additional, video specific) official can't quickly view a replay and provide input as to exactly what happened. I mean, they're already wearing headsets and there's just too many players and too much space for one guy (although he does have the linesmen too) to see it all.